By - Dr. Charlene Bolton

NL # 56 – Building Confidence. Self-appreciation. Overcoming Self-doubt.

Thought #1 – Building Confidence.

Confidence isn’t just something magical; it’s a journey of self-discovery. It starts with that tiny voice within, that whispers, ‘You are capable.’ Cultivating inner confidence is like planting seeds of belief in your own potential. It’s about acknowledging your strengths, learning from failures, and embracing challenges. Remember, confidence isn’t about being flawless; it’s about being resilient in the face of imperfections. Believe in the power of your uniqueness, for therein lies the core of your confidence

Thought #2 – Self-appreciation.

Self-appreciation is the art of acknowledging your worth, independent of external validation. It’s about nurturing self-love through kindness toward yourself. Engage in practices that celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small. Embrace moments of self-care and grace, for they reinforce your inner fortitude. Treat yourself with the same compassion you offer others. Self-appreciation isn’t selfish; it’s the cornerstone of self-respect and a catalyst for personal growth.

Thought #3 – Overcoming Self-doubt.

Self-doubt often disguises itself as reality, but it’s merely a shadow of your potential. Overcoming it requires a shift in perspective. Challenge those doubtful whispers with affirmations of your capabilities. Acknowledge fears but refuse to let them dictate your path. Remember, mistakes aren’t synonyms for failure; they are stepping stones towards wisdom. Embrace a growth mindset; see obstacles as opportunities for learning. Overcoming self-doubt isn’t an overnight feat; it’s a daily choice to believe in your ability to rise above uncertainties.

Quote for the Week

The way to develop self-confidence is to do the thing you fear and get a record of successful experiences behind you.

-William Jennings Bryan

An Article for You

How to Practice Self-compassion and Build a Stable Sense of Confidence, According to the Experts

Reflection Questions

  • Which one of the six self-compassion exercises from the article do you practice?
  • List one of the six self-compassion exercises from the article that you don’t practice but would be beneficial if you started practicing it?
  • List one of the six self-compassion exercises from the article that you will practice this week?